He Said I Love You Too Soon, What Should I Do?

He said I love you too soon

What Will Happen To Your Relationship?

An African American couple mad at each otherOnce he says that he loves you too soon, the relationship might change. Sad to say, it might change for the worse.

As a matter of fact, it might completely destroy how you relate with each other. This is mainly due to the fact that you might feel rushed and also feel that he is pressuring you to love him.

It might also be difficult carrying on as if nothing is wrong while knowing that he is totally in love with you and you’re not.

If You Love Him, Say “I Love You Too”

A loving African American coupleIn some cases, you might find that you love him and are just waiting for him to say that he loves you. In this case, regardless of the time he says it, you can say that you love him too. However, you should be sure that you actually love him and that you’re not just caught up in the moment. It should be something that you’ve thought over before and would have said it even if he hadn’t said it first.

Walk Away

A black woman sulkingIf you’re not ready to love the man and he says that he loves you, you should consider ending the relationship. Sometimes, you might not be ready for a serious relationship. If that’s what he’s looking for, there’s no need to raise his hopes for nothing. Simply tell him what you feel and before things start getting serious, it is best if you stop seeing each other. It’s harsh, but sometimes, it’s the best option.

He Said I Love You Too Soon, What Should I Do?

Has a man ever told you that he loved you and you felt that it was too soon? How did you react? What did you do after that? Share with your fellow sisters in the comment section below.

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  1. On a snapchat post, my boyfriend said “I love my girlfriend.” We’ve only been dating for around maybe 2 weeks, but we’ve known each other longer. He didn’t say it to me directly but it still felt way to soon. What should I do (I really like this guy)?

  2. My boyfriend texted me on Snapchat and said “I love you”. We just met online last week and started dating a few days ago. He said he wanted to wait to say it, but couldn’t resist telling me how he felt. I really like him, but I don’t know what to do.

  3. I know this is an older article but I’m currently finding myself in a similar situation. I really like a guy that I’ve been known for seven years. Although we had a one night stand about five years ago, we still remain friends, (coworkers, but we no longer work in the same office). He has been suggesting that we date over the last few months so I’m giving it a try. The issue is that over the last three days he has texted that he loves me a few times. At first I just ignored it but today I decided to reply, “I don’t think you know me well enough to love me”. He replied “We’ve known each other for seven years, but OK”. I didn’t respond after that because yes we’ve known each other for a while but not in the context of being lovers. That one night stand happened years ago and, it was just that, then hiding it from the rest of our coworkers after that.

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