11 Ways To Know If He Is The Right One For You

11 Ways To Know If He Is The Right One For You

Let’s face it, getting the right black man can be quite difficult. However, when you do meet ‘The One’ you don’t want to let him slip away. Who knows, he might just be your soul mate!

But how can you tell if he is? Well, here’s how to know he’s the right one for you.

1. You’re Comfortable Being Yourself Around Him

Black couple

When you are with him, you are comfortable being yourself. You do not feel like you have to put up an appearance just to please him. You are free when you’re with him and feel comfortable sharing all your joys and fears. He loves you for who you are, even without the make-up on. Even on days when you are just not in the mood, he sticks by you. It can be annoying at times but it is also sweet.

2. You Want To Be With Him Even After Having A Terrible Day

A black man holding a black woman he's in love with

When you have a bad day at work, school or on your way home, he is the only person you want to see. Even when you are in the worst mood, you prefer being with him rather than being by yourself. He listens to you and offers a shoulder to lean on. When you are with him, you know that he will be there for you and know what to say to you to make you feel better.

3. He’s Genuinely Happy When You’re Happy

A couple of African American soul mates

Finding someone who makes it his agenda to make you happy is not an easy thing. If he sacrifices a little bit of his own happiness to make you happy, then he is truly a gem. The whole scenario is complete if you feel the same way towards him too. Making each other happy and to give each other without restraint is a feeling that should be treasured.

4. You Have More Good Times Than Bad

A black couple listening to music together

All relationships have their highs and lows. If your highs are more than your lows, then you are definitely meant for each other. The moments you express love for one another are more than those when you end up fighting. Even when you fight, you try to solve the matter together so that you can get back to loving each other. It is always hard to stay mad at each other.

5. He Always Brags About You

Friends having a meal together

There is no way anyone can hang around him and not know about you. You are literally the person he talks about the most.

To be precise, the right word to use is brag. He brags about how awesome you are, your achievements and even the special little things you do for him and others.

This is clearly a man that is proud that you are his black woman.

6. You’ve Survived A Long Distance Relationship

A black couple taking a nature walk

Sometimes, having long-distance relationships can be hard. If your relationship has survived and thrived despite any long distance, then you two are meant to be. Even when you are apart, the thought that you will finally be together in the long run is what keeps you going. If this does not make you realize that that is the right man for you, I don’t know what will!

7. He Is The First Person You Share Your Stories With

Black couple looking into each other's eyes

He is the first person you go to when you want to share anything, whether good or bad. You literally can’t wait to go tell him about that former classmate of yours you met while shopping or about that guy who made a pass at you at the cafe. Then you laugh about it and talk some more. You now go to him to tell him the things you used to tell your friends or parents about before he came along.

8. You Can Comfortably Cry In-Front Of Him

A closeup of the faces of a black couple

When you are caught up in your emotions, you are comfortable crying even when he is there. He probably knows how you react to different situations. He is also able to distinguish between the time you are crying when you are hurt or when you are just caught up in a movie scene. He lets you cry and does not judge you for that.

9. He Makes A Lot Of Sacrifices For You

A romantic mixed race man carrying a black woman

He effortlessly makes sacrifices for you without complaining. You can clearly see that he loves you and would do almost anything for you. And this love didn’t come too soon.

When you move to a new town for school or work, he can go with you if the conditions allow him to do so. And of course, you would gladly do the same for him too.

When you move to a new town for school or work, he can go with you if the conditions allow him to do so. And of course, you would gladly do the same for him too.

10. You Feel Comfortable Planning Your Future With Him

A black couple in love

It is normal for you to make plans about what you will do in the next six months or one year with him. The thought of you not being with him in the foreseeable future does not cross your mind at all. As a matter of fact, you are not worried about such things. The amount of confidence that you have in you relationship is overwhelming.

11. He Cares About Your Family And Friends

Black family at graduation

He is close to your family and friends and freely interacts with them. When your friend needs your help, he is supportive and lets you go be with her. You are also welcomed by his family and he introduces them to you. Going to his niece’s birthday party makes sense even when he is not there. He even calls your grandma or your dad just to check up on them from time to time.

11 Ways To Know If He Is The Right One For You

If you can relate to these things, then the black man you are with is the right one for you. Which points can you relate with the most? What other things do you think can help someone know whether that guy is the right one for them? Let’s get the conversation going!

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